TY - BOOK AU - Brinkman,Rick AU - Kirschner,Rick TI - Dealing with difficult people: 24 lessons for bringing out the best in everyone SN - 0071416412 (pbk.) U1 - 302 PY - 2003/// CY - N.Y. PB - McGraw-Hill KW - Interpersonal relations KW - Interpersonal communication KW - Psychology, Industrial N1 - "The employee handbook for enhancing corporate performance" - Cover; Dealing with difficult people. - Recognize the 10 most unwanted behaviors. - Choose your approach. - Understand the four intents. - Understand the first intent: get it done. - Understand the second intent: get it right. - Understand the third intent: get along. Understand the fourth intent: get appreciated. - Recognize the results of threatened intents. - Reduce differences. - Listen to understand. - Reach a deeper understanding. - Speak to be understood. - Project and expect the best. - Bring out the best in the Tank. - Bring out the best in the Sniper. - Bring out the best in the Know-It-All. - Bring out the best in the Think-They-Know-It-All. - Bring out the best in the Grenade. - Bring the best in the Yes Person. - Bring out the best in the Maybe Person. - Bring out the best in the Nothing Person. - Bring out the best in the No Person. - Bring out the best in the Whiner. - Take the first three action steps ER -